| Location | Battersea |
| Age | 63 years |
| Cause of Death | Leukaemia |
| Date of Birth | 18/07/1944 |
| Date of Death | 17/06/2008 |
| Visitors | 3,239 since 19/06/2008 |
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brian lacey(my dad) was 63yrs old and loved life to the full! he loved to
have a bet and a game of cards, he also had great times with my mum
(lil) and his grandchildren and children and very close friends!
he was born in paddington and lived in perivale uptill he meet my mum(lil) when he then moved to battersea the shaftsbury park estate.
he worked as a snooker hall manager, he was diagonised with leukemia
in 2001 and sadly passed away on 17th june after a long battle with the
dieaese which put him through a rough ride but he had a great sense of humour to which he never lost it and kept his strenghth.
he has left a dear wife my mum(lil) and 6 children and 11 granchildren
and 4 great gran child and we miss him so much.x
greatgranson
hj honey just to let u no ur pricess emma gave birth to our first greatgranson beau his a little darling, u would have loved to have taken this little one under ur wing his a little joe boy all over but very tiny so may b u will get your wish this time we could have a jockey in the family cos joe gave up his football,lost all intrest since u left him he just couldnt face not seeing u on the touch line so he just fell apart,anyway hers to beau now to make us happy god bless xxxxx
long time !!!
Hey Grandad,,
sorry i have not been on her much my laptop broken, as u know im having another baby girl got 5weeks left now, ive been in hospital since my birthday, but im on the mend so u must be helping me, i no ive not been down to see u much but it just hurts to much, gona come see ivan again soon so hope u come and chat again
love u so much and miss u loads
xxxxx
My dear husband
Hi honey it been a while since I spoke to you but have a lot going on the biggest was your baby daughter got married she looked a picture you would have been so proud to have given her away.she did come and see you the moment she got married,Sophie brought her up to see you with Dennis,it's was a lovely day but of course tinged with sadness also,david and Kim were there plus Robert dean trica. And to top it all ethan was the ring bearer he was dressed the same as the best man and niggle who of course took your place and gave her away and what a good job he done.well the is more news wiggy is now the next to marry she is going to get married on our annavsairy so that is to come will writ again after that lone has taken place for now I will say night night god bless. Love and miss you like crazy XXXXXXXX lil
Bad Days & Miss Ya Bad.x
Hey Dad, well the time is 5.24am another night i cant sleep dennis and maisy are fast asleep, so its very peaceful sitting her on my own thinking and going over things i used to find it helpful to come on here and talk to you but now i am struggling again have so much going on at the min just wish so much for your advice and to put me straight i still often wonder why you left us on that tuesday and still i get very angry that you and me argued the day before i just wish i really knew you was at peace because right now i am not at peace i am frightend and scared and really wish i could see you hear your voice, i have tried listening to your c.d so i can hear your voice but as soon as you start to talk i just breakdown and have to turn it off. i am so trying dad to be strong but you just would never know how hard it is i struggle we are nearly 2 years down the line and it still feels like yesterday when nigel rang me i have had a bad time since you have been gone i even find it hard to visit you at putney and i dont want it to be like that i do try but i just can not cope why did it have to be my dad why not someone elses dad you did not deserve to go and all the pain you went through just to try and hang on. i worry sick about mum she has not been well she has oxygen at home now which she uses but i find that frightening she does try and give up smoking but its hard for her she does not do anything else so that is her luxury even though its bad for her but hey she dont listen you would no that. i am getting married on the 28th august its meant to be an exciting time and happy occassion but it will be very hard knowing that you are not here with me but as soon as i have done it i am coming straight to you so you can see me in my wedding outfit i am struggling dad i cant even see the computer keys through tears i will leave you bee to rest now and remember i love and mis you very much everyday.xxx love yu.xxxxxx
my dear husband
hi honey for gor to tell u wait for it rob and sopia are having a baby bet that neat u of you chair so if you see any names in the bookies up there with the names of harry or cloie then back them cor that the names they have chosen and its due july could be your birthday so watch this space xxxxxx
chit caht
hi honey its a while since i left a message for u but i do come a see u at putney and have a chat till miss you like crazy.its been bad weather you wouldnt have like the cold,but thingd are looking a litle better so i will be spendin more time with u veery soon so sleep like a baby and ill see u soon love and miss u god bless lil xxx
hey Grandad,,
hows u up there?? things are really good for me at the mo moved into my new place im loving it nearly finished decerating just got my dressing room n bedroom to finish but putting it on hold till after xmas only 7days left now. also been snowed in today got 8inches of snow here. going suzannes for xmas now then dads in eve n then over in pim for boxing day so should be a good 1, brooke has started really beliving in santa this year took her to see him n his raindeers she loved it..wish u were here this christmas but i will be down christmas day love u loads xxxx
hello grandad
grandad its been a while since writing on here got a fone call today grandad fairmans died so his up there with you now its offical i have no grandads leftd,, i dont really no how to feel bout the news off grandad fairman i didnt really no him so i cant really miss him!! hope your doing ok up there its getting darker earlier now clocks went back and its nearly christmas again which is crap as it means another year with out you people told me day by day it wud get easier but if nefink day by day its gettin harder with out you ive got a job interview on friday so fingers crossed ill get that jus b4 christmas so send me sum luck n friday please i promise ill come on here more an write to you its jus really hard sumtyms i miss you sooo much grandad and wud do nefing to see you again or bring you back for good so then you can never leave again coz lifes jus really not the same without you i love you grandad more then life its self and i miss you to much speak soon xxxxxx
my dear hubby brian
so here we go again and another week on there is not much to say things still pretty much the same here oh one bit of newss dean trica are having another baby,seems the christmas list is getting bigger and bigger.all the rest of the family are doing okay.what am i going to do this year for christmas itsd a sure bet i will not be at nigel and yolies,have been on the ladbokes playing play money god nos why but its a time killer,cos time goes so slow and now the nights are drawing in its not nice sitting here alone like right now after i have sign of from taolking to you im at a lost,then my mind goes back to the night you left me and the tears start.so here goes im at it now so good nihjt god bless love you lilxxxx
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